A while back I posted a funny but true version of The Girl Code. Most of it was true but sometimes we girls ask ourselves, Is there really a "girl code". Sure we say its "girls code' to not date your friends' ex, or its not cool to be bffs with a guy who has a girlfriend, but do we ever follow these rules.
Some might argue that this girl code doesn't exist on the basis of love. "If I liked him after my friend dated him and what not, is that wrong?" I sorta recently saw the movie and read the book "Something Borrowed" and in it, the lead character is having an affair with her best friends fiance weeks to their wedding simply because she was in love with him first.
Oh, what if I introduce a friend of mine, to a guy that is my friend, that previously dated one of my friends, is that a violation of the girl code. What if I am just friends with your bf and you feel threatened, should I break off my friendship just because you think I might be in violation of the girl code??
So ladies please enlighten me on what you think should be included in the girl code and what your thoughts are on the issue in the comments section.
Ms. Me
I think the girl code still exists But , the question is whose really your girl ? I feel like you need to solidify your friendships first before you can think of a girl code ? Good blog btw !
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